Thursday, May 31, 2012

Just Lois

So, I guess I have a theme for the month of May and now it is my turn.  I have been up to the having a blast with my girls and husband.  It has been crazy watching them all grow.  Once Jasmin stated walking it made it seem like I don't have a baby anymore.  Kenya just amazes me everyday with what she learns! Robert is an amazing father and loves to play with all of us just as much as we love to play with him! 
I love my life! Really, I do!  I get a full nights sleep (most nights) and have for months now, which is a lot to say for having to kids and one of them under one.  I get to play and have fun with my friends.  I get to watch every event in my children's lives.  I get to be a mom and a wife!
 Really, I have been watching my starter plants grow and actually did a little sewing.  I made skirts for the girls for Memorial Day and the 4th of July and a matching headband for me.  I also got crafty with making new hair bows.  That is me. 

One for me.

And one for a friend.

These were for a friend's baby shower and now that I think about it, that baby girl is being born sometime in the next few hours.  

What can I say about these two?  CUTE!

Well, you cannot see the headband I am wearing, but it matches.  I am kind of dorky like that. 

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Just Kenya

Kenya LOVES her sister.  That is what occupies most of her time right now.  I don't think she can go more than 10 seconds without the urge to touch Jasmin.  The most common thing heard in this house for at least the last 6 months is...
"Leave her alone."  or "If you touch your sister again you are going to your room." (often followed by Kenya going to her room because she just could not resist!) or "You know you are not allowed to pick your sister up, so why did you."  and MANY similar sounding phrases!
My goodness Kenya loves her sister!  It never helps with Jasmin is laughing or smiling and Kenya always follows up with, "But she likes it," or "But it makes her laugh, I just want to make her laugh."
Well with that all said, I will tell you about what she does while Jasmin is sleeping or the other 2% of her time when she is not bothering playing with her sister.  Kenya love playing outside.  Since the weather has been so much nicer we are outside at least a few hours a day.  She rides her bike, plays with neighborhood kids and plays chase.  She is super into pretend play.  Her favorites are, playing baby, anything type of animal that is a pet on a leash, playing making friends (she pretends we have never met and then we pretend that we are becoming new friends), and whatever else in her amazing imagination that day.  Outside she loves to play in water, play with bubbles and write/draw with sidewalk chalk and play at the park.  She like to go to story time at the library too.
When we are not outside some of the things she does are: play dress up, help clean, play with play dough, write/draw, cooking, dancing, reading books, and really anything else she see other people do. Her imagination had really taken off in this last year and it is fun to see what she thinks about what she decides to play.  She has begun to play card and board games too!
Dress up and dancing with Mommy!  This is super common in our house. 
This next picture is too funny.  I mentioned that she enjoys cleaning and mopping is one of her favorite.  One day she was playing dress up and I needed to mop.  So she came out of her room and asked to help.  Of course I let her.  Then as I sat back and watched her I notice what she was dressed up in.  Yep, that is it, Cinderella.  She was dressed up as Cinderella and mopping my floors.  Oh, the hard life she has.  Too ironic!

She got to "meet" Dora and Diego. Seriously it was less than 5 seconds that she was near them and they did not even say a word to her.  We were all disappointed to say the least!

Doing what she does best.  Sharing and being with her sister! @ Yellowstone Bear World.

She got to ride in the front of the car without any seat belt or anything as we went through Bear World.  She was so ECSTATIC!  Just like a big person!

Again with her favorite person in the world!  @ the kite festival.
Kenya loves learning new things.  We grew some pinto bean plant a couple of months ago and she loved watching them grow.  So we were both super excited about planting our starters for our garden.  So here we are below planting seeds.  She still love to water the plants and see the progress of our garden.  (Almost all of our seeds are planted and are ready to transplant into the ground. Now we just need to find some land for them.)

This was actually cooking with Daddy.  They made me these yummy cupcakes for Mother's Day.  It is an orange cupcake inside the peel of an orange.
These are pictures that Kenya took one day.  I came out from putting Jasmin down for a nap and she was quietly playing with the camera taking pictures.


Playing around with Daddy!

This was just on Memorial Day.  Outside playing frisbee at a friends BBQ.

And this was yesterday.  She just asked me to take a picture of her and so I did.  She was saying "cheese' while grating cheese for dinner.  How cheesy!!!
There are so many wonderful things to write about Kenya and so many amazing things she says and done.  But this has gone on long enough.  There is just one last story that I have to share that melted my heart today.
She got in trouble at the store for doing something she knows she is not suppose to do.  So, we just left the store and I was trying to show her I was pretty disappointed in her for what she had done.  So, I told her we were leaving and explained to her that she got certain things taken away for the rest of the day because of her behavior.  She could tell the my mood had changed and asked me if I was happy.  I told her no I wasn't because she had chose to do something bad.  So after we got in the car and we were on our car ride home she pointed out to me that I was "happy with Jasmin, but not happy with her."  Yep, that was right!  Then she began to tell me things like this-"Mom, I like it when you are happy with me and we play together.  I love it when you are happy and we cuddle and you read me books.  I like it when you are happy with me."  I told her that I like it too.  Then she asked me to look at her.  (I hadn't really been looking at her because I was driving, but also because I was trying to show her that I was upset.)  I asked her why after she persisted to ask.   She then said, "Look at me because I want to smile at you."  (My heart was already melting, but I asked why she wanted to smile at me.)  "It makes you happy when I smile at you!"  Yes Kenya, it does make me happy!  I turned and looked at her and she smiled a sweet half grin.  I am sure she saw my face light up.  This is by far one of my proudest parenting moments yet!  Then there were some other sweet words exchanged.  I just hoped that was a lesson learned and memory we will both never forget. 

Friday, May 11, 2012

Just Robert aka BEST husband EVER!

Yeah, I  have the best husband ever!  It is something that I should brag about more often!  What does a man need to be to be the perfect husband.  I will tell you!
You may think that it is bring home gifts and flowers unexpected and often.  You may think it is sweeping you off of your feet every day and every moment of your life.  You may think it is doing everything right.  You may think it is being romantic.  You may think it is giving you everything you have ever asked for or wanted.  You may think it is making you laugh.  You may think it is taking you out on dates to the nice restaurants and spoiling you on special occasions or not so special occasions.  You may think it is not saying anything as you spend endless hours on Pinterest and make him look at everything you are going to make "someday".  You may think it is making you feel and telling you, you are beautiful no matter if you have gained weight or are not showered and still in your PJ when he gets home from work.  You make think it is playing with the kids after dinner and all evening long so you get a break even though he worked all day.  You may even think it is that he does not ask "What did you do all day?" when he gets home and the house is mess and the kids are whinny.   Really you may think that the best husband ever is all of these combined!
Robert is better at some of these than others.  He is really amazing at the latter half of these statements.  But what makes him the BEST husband EVER is that he supports me in every way and shares the same goals and visions for our family!  He goes to works to support me financially so that I can stay at home with our children, which is what we both want!  It does not matter what the job is he is will to do it and do his best at it.  I get to go and play all day with these girls and have so much fun!  He comes home from work and we tell him all about our day.  He smiles and tells us he is happy we had fun. A MAZ ING!  He supports me emotionally and spiritually as well, by doing some of the things listed above.  He has a strong relationship with our Father in Heaven and with Jesus Christ which enables him to lead our family in righteousness.  He listens to me and we make decisions together, but he also trusts me to make decisions on my own.  I feel his complete trust on love everyday! 
Not many women are as blessed as I am to have this amazing life!
Do we fight, NO!  Do we disagree and sometimes argue, YES.  Are there days when I don't feel as blessed as I am, yes I am ashamed to admit.  Do we get to have everything we want for our children and ourselves, NO.  Do we have everything we need to be healthy, strong and feel safe, YES!!  Are there times I feel overwhelmed staying at home and frustrated with my children, yes.
I have so much more to say, but it is too long already.
Robert, I love you for everything you are!