As you all probably know we are getting excited about having a baby! Along with the excitement comes other emotions as well. We are both still feeling very calm, but also in our heads is the thoughts of being ready with baby stuff, and the anticipation of when it will happen. Really, we are only 5 weeks away and so, anything could happen and this baby could come.
Robert this past week had planned a few days in advance to have our family home evening. So, Monday night came around and I had no idea what we were going to do. So, for the activity he had planned to put together the hospital bag. It was fun searching the house for things that the list suggested. It was kind of like a treasure hunt. So, we are now "ready" to be able to just pick up the bag and get the hospital if needed. Granted we still need to get the house ready and get the car seat and thing ready for when the baby comes home, but at least at the hospital I will have what I need and a few things for the baby.
It was actually a few weeks ago that Robert started to ask me about what is needed to put in the hospital bag and I told him I had no idea. So, then I found a list in a magazine and told him about it. It is nice to hear him express his concerns and thoughts about having a baby. He really wants to be part of it and is doing a great job at supporting me, when/if I need it.
This pregnancy has been very different than I thought it would be. Really, it has not affected or changed our lives much. Just recently I have had the pleasure of the multiple trips to pee at night, but really that is it. It has been such a blessing!
Other things Robert has said that I am grateful he said and shows his support to me:
He as asked when/if I need help tying my shoes.
Tells me it is okay to sleep as much as I do and does not complain about the lack of sleep that he gets.
Doesn't complain when I don't get up at 4:00am to get him some breakfast.
He humors me when I tell him to feel the baby kick or watch my stomach move. (Of coarse the baby always stops and so he does not get to see/feel it very often, but he will do it anyway because he knows that I want him to experience it as well.)
He talks to me about baby names.
He has gone to every doctors apt.
He shows his love for me and tells me he loves me everyday!
Last thing I wanted to mention is that I had a doctors appointment this last Wednesday I talked to my doctor about being induced. He said that he is fine with it as along as I am past 39 weeks. I had to ask him because I think one of the only things that I have stressed out about is going past my due date a week or two and having an almost 11 pound baby. (So, Kelsey I don't think I could be as brave or strong as you.) So, I was glad to hear my Dr. say he would induce me if we wanted. So, Robert and I have begun to think about asking him to do it on March 7 because it works well with our schedule. (That makes it sound so easy to have a baby, but I doubt it will be.) My next appointment with the Dr is February 11 and we will talk to him about it then.
Sorry for the long blog, but I will try to keep everyone posted.
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Fair warning...if you are induced, you will most likely be begging for an epidural. The pain is so strong because you're body is put into a fast track mode. Just beware.
I think it's so cute that you guys are excited, I'm so excited FOR you! MAN we miss you!
Oh, the wonderful nesting instinct. Randy and I have been feeling it recently too. This last week we have been gathering basic supplies like diapers, wipes and fixing up the crib. We still don't have the bag packed for the hospital though. So, you two are ahead of the game. I remember when I was a month away from having Katie Marie I was feeling that need to get things ready and we were living in OR. We found out that when we moved back to Rexburg we didn't have an apartment reserved (like we thought we did) and so I was sooo frustrated because I didn't even have a "nest." Of course Randy found one on line and that is what landed us in that wonderful ward we met you in. Can't wait to hear more about your baby adventures in the very near future. Good luck with everything!!!
I can't wait for you guys!!!! You will both be great parents. I agree with the first comment though, be warned if you get induced- it is extra painful extra fast. That is part of the reason I had to have a c-section. Lots of people have no problems when they get induced though, so I don't tell you that to scare you, just to make sure you're aware. I am so excited for you guys. And don't be scared of labor- it is SO neat and empowering. You'll do great. Please let me know if you need anything. I would love to help in any way, even if it's holding your sweet (girl?) baby so you can get some sleep or bringing a dinner. really. My # is 569-4338. Yay you're so close!!
Robert will be a great dad!!! I'm glad he's taking such good care of you. Also, 11 pound babies are not fun coming out, but for the record they are AMAZING after they get out. :) Can't wait to meet Harmon's new cousin!!!
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